Tuff Love: A Group Coaching Call w/ Rob Kandell
It’s an interesting paradox. We all really want to know how we show in the world but we do everything we can to avoid it. Its like an itch we want to scratch but also tend to ignore. We create secret covert alliances with our friends, families, workmates and enemies for them to withhold the truth, to make things “nice” rather than real. In doing so, we never truly know what people think about us. For some, this is okay. Maybe not for you.
Every week, coach, entrepreneur and teacher Rob Kandell will leading a group experience where he will speak his heart-filled, intense, tuff love. He will (a) answer questions posted to this event and via chat, (b) speak his mind plainly on topics of interest, and (c) coach brave enthusiastic volunteers in a group setting. Honestly, we don’t know what’s going to happen.
- Gender Issues
- Guest Interviews
In the last two weeks, I’ve have the same conversation 5 times around a woman’s vigilance center. The reaction to these conversations is fascinating. They either are relived, angry, frustrated or confused. Or a combination of all four. NEWS FLASH – If a person’s fear is not handled, there will be little to no motion, fun, laughter, joy and certainly …Read more
Last week’s show, “A Man’s Ego”, was one of my favorite shows I’ve done. It was an edgy, uncomfortable, informative and carried a lot of sensation. I felt a LOT of wisdom came out. I immediately wanted to do a follow up show on a “Woman’s Ego” but then felt that I need some help. I felt if it was …Read more
This week’s is a little bit more intense than normal. We will be talking about the interesting and very tender topic of Men and their Ego’s. This will NOT be either a male-bashing experience nor a softening of the truth. It will be, by my own experience, a true discussion of how our Ego’s plays in today’s society and the …Read more
Deborah Kagan’s title is “Mojo Recovery specialist”. I LOVE that title because I think we all need a little spark some times. “Mojo” was originally defined as a charm or a spell. The urban dictionary has expanded the definition to include sexual appeal or talent. As in, “Man, that girl has MOJO!” My view is that our world is SUPER …Read more
As a business consultant/Life-coach, I would say that 99% of the issues I work with people around concern f&*ked up communication. It continues to amaze me how poorly we are trained to both speak and listen. It’s not your fault cause society actually teaches us to be mediocre communicators. I can easily say that in the majority of my podcasts, …Read more
In January 2013, I was feeling out-of-shape. For an ex-fat kid, this sensation is akin to torture because every moment, every look in the mirror brings up young triggers. I had just migrated from SF to LA for the job and had the opportunity to setup a new schedule. I knew I wanted to do something drastic. So, I put …Read more
I’ve recently had an experience where I’ve been betrayed by someone who I considered a close friend. The details aren’t that important but I will discuss them briefly. We created a business together, it ended, and in our conversations as we ended were mutually considerate, fair, and warm. We finished a tough situation with good intentions. Then, she stopped communicating. …Read more
The fascinating concept of your identity. We all know who we are right? Its pretty constant with some minor changes here and there. Right? I thought so too. After a deep journey last weekend, I am seeing parts of my identity that I don’t even know where it comes from. Our identity shifts. Who we are modulates. Who our partner …Read more