I asked a teacher once about how to handle jealousy. He has been having, uh, dynamic relationships for about 25 years. He looked me straight in the eye and said “Handle jealousy? You CAN’T! You’re SCREWED! Go mow the lawn or something”. Everyone laughed. I left intrigued.
I’ve been working and living in, uh, dynamic relationships for 16 years now and i can tell you that I’ve learned how to harness the power of jealousy. Its still never EASY but there is a way to have a powerful relationship with it.
This Thursday on Tuff Love, we talk about how to play with the green-eyed monster.